Me and my husband always have a discussion on how i handle his correction .
Its not that i dont like to be corrected but its how you corrected me. I know
its my pride that kicks in everytime i react when somebody criticise me or
corrected me and i know that is not good. I become defensive and my mood
change, i just keep quite and stay alone for a while. My husband said that
people that cannot handle criticism are insecure, have low self esteem and
that their defensive mechanism is to pull their self out of the situation or
retaliate reasons or excuses instead of just accepting the corrections and
make theirselves better or improve theirselves. How about you? do you think
insecurities has something to do with how you react to anybodys
criticism/corrections? or pride? or low self esteem? tell me how you feel
about it.

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