Friday, June 12, 2009

How do you handle criticisms or corrections?how do you react?

Me and my husband always have a discussion on how i handle his correction .

Its not that i dont like to be corrected but its how you corrected me. I know

its my pride that kicks in everytime i react when somebody criticise me or

corrected me and i know that is not good. I become defensive and my mood

change, i just keep quite and stay alone for a while. My husband said that

people that cannot handle criticism are insecure, have low self esteem and

that their defensive mechanism is to pull their self out of the situation or

retaliate reasons or excuses instead of just accepting the corrections and

make theirselves better or improve theirselves. How about you? do you think

insecurities has something to do with how you react to anybodys

criticism/corrections? or pride? or low self esteem? tell me how you feel

about it.

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